Tender Love and Care

Don't go on a weight loss diet for others

Have you ever thought you can't find a partner because you are too fat? Well you are not alone. Many people think the same .They are all wrong. You might be too fat and that might not attract some people, but there are those who are and will be attracted to fat people. The outer shell of the body is important but not the most important. Haven’t you seen happy fat couples around you? Haven't you seen ugly fat women dating handsome guys and vice versa? 

How come all these people have partners and some of you don’t?

The answer lies in what you think, in how you see yourself. That ugly woman going out with this handsome man knows she is beautiful. Someone always told her how beautiful and lovely she is (probably her parents),and what she believes in ,she radiates to the outer world. She is sure of her beauty and people can feel her confidence in her looks. She is not ashamed, she knows someone loves her the way she is.

Now you should do the same. Every one of us is a wonderful creature .We are all love, light and goodness inside.  It's true that when you look at some people you need to scrap some layers to see that ,but I assure you we are all made the same .We are all made in the same factory of life ,from the same ingredients ,so we must have the same   basic features.

Believe in yourself, in the beauty and goodness that you are .Once you truly believe in it, you naturally radiate it to the surrounding. People will notice it.

When you feel like a fat looser, people feel it and they don’t want anything to do with you. So remember ,every day is a new day, and is time for new beginnings and new conceptions of yourself.

Starting on a  weight loss and exercise program just to look good,  to find a date and then go back to your old fattening eating habits wont hold. Choosing a weight loss diet plans choosing to change and a change that is only cosmetic, only from the outside will not hold for long. Not the body weight and not the partner .So do not diet to date .Do not go on a diet just for someone else to love you .Do it for yourself, because you love yourself.

If you love yourself you will find out that others can love you too. If you love yourself you treat your body and soul as lovers do, with tender love and care.